The future beckons us with the promise of a better life… Or sometimes — perhaps more often than we care to think about — we’re beset by the threat of fearful things to come when “this” or “that” happens. A good analogy is that we’re on a train, going down a track, headed towards a place we hope holds the […]

By Guy Finley Ask yourself: how many times have I won the object of my desire, only to find out that it wasn’t enough? How familiar do the following statements seem to you? “This is the greatest thing that’s ever happened… but what if…” “I love you… but…” “This moment is almost perfect… all it needs is…” The prize won, […]

We all enjoy having something special to look forward to. Maybe it’s a party, an upcoming holiday, or a long-awaited vacation. We anticipate pleasurable times ahead that we’re certain will fill us with happiness. But as many people will attest, no matter how beautiful the holiday, how lovely the vacation, how special the event, there is often a letdown when […]